I’m learning to greet life with open curiosity, releasing the impulse to judge or jump to conclusions, and giving every moment the space to reveal itself – Jan.
I heard people talking about Ted Lasso, and it wasn’t a series that I was instantly drawn to. A couple of work colleagues had mentioned it, and I thought I would give it a go! To my surprise, during the summer, my husband and I took a trip to Richmond, London, to do the Ted Lasso experience. Richmond is a place I love; its regal heritage draws me. We took photos outside the famous pub and ambled along the side alley outside his flat. We walked along the riverbank in glorious sunshine, sat at the pub with drinks in hand, and people-watched. We chatted to people from South Africa and the US who were doing the same as us, experiencing life!
In case you don’t know, Ted Lasso is a heartfelt, hilarious, sports comedy series about an American college football coach, Ted Lasso, who is unexpectedly hired to coach AFC Richmond, a struggling English Premier League soccer team—despite knowing nothing about English soccer.
At first, the team, fans, and British media mock him mercilessly. But Ted has some true personal gifts. Optimism, anchored emotional intelligence, and a belief in people that gradually transform the club. Ted expresses oodles of kindness, his own vulnerability, the power of teamwork, his mental health struggles, and his personal growth.
What I love most about Ted is his folksy charm and his relentlessly positive attitude about his decision to move to England. Remember, Rebecca Welton, the team owner, initially hires him, scheming and plotting to sabotage the team as revenge on her ex-husband. Over time, she comes to respect him, grows fond of him, and they become friends. Under his watch, key players like Roy ‘f-ing’ Kent, Jamie Tartt, and Sam Obisanya go through significant personal and professional transformations.
The show is centred on building relationships, healing, and strong self-belief. It’s about how kindness and empathy can change people—and even a whole soccer club—for the better. I highly recommend the show, and I do find myself referencing Ted from time to time. Like me, he is optimistic, and he believes. I’m committed to meeting every moment with curiosity, not judgment, and letting understanding replace my urge for quick conclusions.
How do you see your life unfolding? How deeply have you come to know your own strength? And what or who lights the path you follow?
If you’re searching for meaning or hoping to grow into the best version of yourself, I’d be honoured to help you explore those questions. Let me know, and have a super day.
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