Thank you for the countless ways you nurture, guide, encourage, and look out for us — often quietly and without recognition. The impact of a mother’s care, strength, and wisdom reaches far beyond what words can express.
Today I also hold space for the mothers who now dwell in the heavenly realms. Their love, lessons, and voices continue to echo in our hearts and shape the people we become.
I’m especially grateful for my own mum, whose words still stay with me: “You can do this. Be what you want to be.” Her encouragement continues to guide me, and I try to pass that belief on whenever I can.
To mothers everywhere around the world — thank you. Your influence is profound, your work is extraordinary, and your love makes an immeasurable difference.
In a world that is shaped by geopolitical tension, uncertainty, and rapid change, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. News cycles remind us daily of conflicts, crises, and divisions across nations. Yet despite all of this, one quiet but powerful truth remains: while we are alive, there is hope.
Hope is not naïve optimism. It is not ignoring reality or pretending problems don’t exist. Hope is the conscious decision to believe that tomorrow can be different from today. It is the small but resilient voice inside us that says, there is still possibility.
For me, hope is deeply personal. It is the belief that even in difficult moments, something meaningful can grow. Hope keeps us moving forward when progress seems slow or invisible. It reminds us that every discovery, every act of kindness, and every step toward understanding begins with someone who believed improvement was possible.
Hope also asks something of us. It asks us not to give up when things are uncertain. History, science, and human progress are full of people who refused to surrender to despair. Every breakthrough, whether social, technological, or personal, came from persistence.
Closely tied to hope is curiosity. Curiosity keeps the mind open. It invites us to ask questions rather than assume the worst. When we stay curious, we continue learning about the world and about each other. Curiosity builds bridges where fear often builds walls.
Hope also requires trust and belief. Trust in ourselves, trust in others, and trust that positive change is still possible. Even small acts of belief can ripple outward. When one person chooses hope, it often inspires others to do the same.
To live with hope means choosing resilience over resignation. It means understanding that setbacks are part of the journey, not the end of it. It means holding onto the idea that the future is still being written.
So while the world may feel uncertain at times, the presence of hope is a reminder of our greatest human strength: the ability to imagine something better and keep working toward it.
As long as we are alive, there is possibility. And where there is possibility, there is hope.
Have a blessed day and Happy International Women’s Day!
I’m learning to greet life with open curiosity, releasing the impulse to judge or jump to conclusions, and giving every moment the space to reveal itself – Jan.
I heard people talking about Ted Lasso, and it wasn’t a series that I was instantly drawn to. A couple of work colleagues had mentioned it, and I thought I would give it a go! To my surprise, during the summer, my husband and I took a trip to Richmond, London, to do the Ted Lasso experience. Richmond is a place I love; its regal heritage draws me. We took photos outside the famous pub and ambled along the side alley outside his flat. We walked along the riverbank in glorious sunshine, sat at the pub with drinks in hand, and people-watched. We chatted to people from South Africa and the US who were doing the same as us, experiencing life!
In case you don’t know, Ted Lasso is a heartfelt, hilarious, sports comedy series about an American college football coach,Ted Lasso, who is unexpectedly hired to coach AFC Richmond, a struggling English Premier League soccer team—despite knowing nothing about English soccer.
At first, the team, fans, and British media mock him mercilessly. But Ted has some true personal gifts. Optimism, anchored emotional intelligence, and a belief in people that gradually transform the club. Ted expresses oodles of kindness, his own vulnerability, the power of teamwork, his mental health struggles, and his personal growth.
What I love most about Ted is his folksy charm and his relentlessly positive attitude about his decision to move to England. Remember, Rebecca Welton, the team owner, initially hires him, scheming and plotting to sabotage the team as revenge on her ex-husband. Over time, she comes to respect him, grows fond of him, and they become friends. Under his watch, key players like Roy ‘f-ing’ Kent, Jamie Tartt, and Sam Obisanya go through significant personal and professional transformations.
The show is centred on building relationships, healing, and strong self-belief. It’s about how kindness and empathy can change people—and even a whole soccer club—for the better. I highly recommend the show, and I do find myself referencing Ted from time to time. Like me, he is optimistic, and he believes. I’m committed to meeting every moment with curiosity, not judgment, and letting understanding replace my urge for quick conclusions.
How do you see your life unfolding? How deeply have you come to know your own strength? And what or who lights the path you follow? If you’re searching for meaning or hoping to grow into the best version of yourself, I’d be honoured to help you explore those questions. Let me know, and have a super day.
Maya Angelou was interviewed by Oprah on her 70+ birthday. Oprah asked her what she thought of growing older. And, there on television, she said it was ‘exciting…’
Regarding body changes, she said there were many, occurring every day……like her breasts. They seem to be in a race to see which will reach her waist, first.
The audience laughed so hard they cried. She is such a simple and honest woman, with so much wisdom in her words!
Maya Angelou said this: ‘I’ve learned that no matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.’
‘I’ve learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles these three things: a rainy day, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights.’
‘I’ve learned that regardless of your relationship with your parents, you’ll miss them when they’re gone from your life.’
‘I’ve learned that making a ‘living’ is not the same thing as making a life.’
‘I’ve learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance.’
‘I’ve learned that you shouldn’t go through life with a catcher’s mitt on both hands; you need to be able to throw some things back…’
‘I’ve learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision.’
‘I’ve learned that even when I have pains, I don’t have to be one.’
‘I’ve learned that every day you should reach out and touch someone. People love a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back….’
‘I’ve learned that I still have a lot to learn..’
‘I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.’
It’s been almost twelve months since I put pen to paper (or fingers to keyboard, depending on how you roll). And I can’t help but notice how slippery time has become. A week now passes like a day, and a month vanishes like a week. Blink, and another season has already tiptoed past, and I’m still trying to figure out what happened to last Tuesday!
In this whirl of days turning into months, one lesson has returned to me with quiet insistence: change is the one permanent resident in our lives. Like an uninvited houseguest, it shows up, makes itself at home, and whether we like it or not, we’ve got to adapt. And really, unless we evolve in both mind and heart, we risk being left behind—like the person still clinging to their Nokia 3310 while the rest of the world is on foldable smartphones. The Nokia 3310 was the best. I still have one, just saying!! Unless I’m willing to keep my mind and my heart open and stay curious, I risk being left behind, clinging to old certainties while the world pirouettes forward.
And then there’s the other certainty: death. We arrive in this world with nothing but a cry, clinging to our mother’s smell and voice. We leave with empty hands. No riches, no possessions, no accolades come with us. Yet this truth is oddly liberating. Because it reminds me that wealth wears many disguises. Peace of mind is worth more than any balance sheet. Happiness is not outsourced to others, but cultivated within. And completeness? Well, I am already whole—beautifully imperfect, glorious with my cracks and quirks, my “beautiful brokenness” is part of the design. I am reminded, fearfully and wonderfully made.
Around me, the world hums with noise: politics near and far, AI shaping new realities, natural disasters reminding us of our fragility, wars, rising prices, dazzling innovations, and the heartbreak of homelessness. Chaos is everywhere, spinning in circles. And yet, within that spin, a quiet truth remains: some things are still mine to choose.
I get to choose my mindset. I get to decide how I respond. And I get to choose whether I meet the absurdities of life with despair or with a smile. More often than not, humour lightens the weight, optimism steadies the heart, my faith is my anchor, and reflection reminds me that even in turbulent times, there is always beauty to be found. There’s not a lot we get for free these days; however, as a reminder, here are some.
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